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Would you live with another couple?

  • My roommate told me that he wants to live with his gf and that he wants her to move in our place.
    I told him I wasn't comfortable with it.
    Our lease is up in January and her's is up in June, so we would all 3 be living together for 6 months.
    I have a gf, but I can't move in with her (Catholic and such), and I'm really not comfortable with him and his gf living at my place. I just think that would be a weird dynamic and don't want to deal with any drama that may arise.

    What do you guys think?

    You are either going to be a leader or not. to be a leader, you throw your shoulders back, tits to the sky, head up, cock out. - Daddy98

    aggiematt235

  • How I met your mother rule meaning you've got to be best friends with her too in order for it to work...otherwise it's just extremely weird

    BigTiminAg

  • BigTiminAg said...

    How I met your mother rule meaning you've got to be best friends with her too in order for it to work...otherwise it's just extremely weird

    Definitely not best friends with her. And truth be told, she and my gf don't really get along that well.

    You are either going to be a leader or not. to be a leader, you throw your shoulders back, tits to the sky, head up, cock out. - Daddy98

    aggiematt235

  • 2 Choices:

    1.) Tell him F**K NO

    2.) Tell him you are moving out and she can take the rest of your lease.

    This is an absolute death trap man. Put a stop to it or get the eff out.

    Gunga La Gunga

  • Gunga La Gunga said...

    2 Choices:

    1.) Tell him F**K NO

    2.) Tell him you are moving out and she can take the rest of your lease.

    This is an absolute death trap man. Put a stop to it or get the eff out.

    this.

    BigTiminAg

  • Gunga La Gunga said...

    2 Choices:

    1.) Tell him F**K NO

    2.) Tell him you are moving out and she can take the rest of your lease.

    This is an absolute death trap man. Put a stop to it or get the eff out.

    +1 Back when I finished up at A&M, lived in an apartment with Aggie and things were fine until his girlfriend starting going from one night a week to the entire weekend to basically whenever she felt like it. Bad timing for all sorts of reasons.

    Dunn84

  • Gunga La Gunga said...

    2 Choices:

    1.) Tell him F**K NO

    2.) Tell him you are moving out and she can take the rest of your lease.

    This is an absolute death trap man. Put a stop to it or get the eff out.

    1. I did tell him no.
    2. It's only my name on the lease.

    He wants to find a sub lessor for the next 6 months. I told him I'm fine with that as long as I approve of whoever he wants to live with me. I don't want some random guy I don't know sharing a residence with me for 6 months.

    Glad to know that I'm not the only one that sees this is a bad situation for me.
    He seems to think I'm being an idiot for not taking a big cut in rent. The money I'll gain isn't worth the crap I'll deal with for 6 months.

    You are either going to be a leader or not. to be a leader, you throw your shoulders back, tits to the sky, head up, cock out. - Daddy98

    aggiematt235

  • Living with a buddy's gf definitely sucks; I don't recommend it.

    Would your room mate at least make her pay her share of rent? might be worth it for two hundy a month

    TAMUwake

  • If everything is split three ways, not two where they share half, you could maybe make it for 6 months. Your gf not liking her could be the deal breaker though.

    Your logic is boggling my mind

    johnnyag07

  • DON'T DO IT

    Howdy Ags

  • I would definitely save money. That's not the issue.
    The issue is that I don't want to deal with any drama that could come up.
    I don't want to deal with 2-1 votes if they want something that I don't.
    Also, she has a cat.
    1. Cats suck.
    2. I have a dog.
    3. I'm allergic to cats
    Apparently she would try to get a friend to watch after the cat for 6 months, but I have a feeling the cat would somehow find its way to my place and then I would be stuck with terrible allergies and crap in my own house.

    You are either going to be a leader or not. to be a leader, you throw your shoulders back, tits to the sky, head up, cock out. - Daddy98

    aggiematt235

  • aggiematt235 said...

    1. I did tell him no. 2. It's only my name on the lease.

    He wants to find a sub lessor for the next 6 months. I told him I'm fine with that as long as I approve of whoever he wants to live with me. I don't want some random guy I don't know sharing a residence with me for 6 months.

    Glad to know that I'm not the only one that sees this is a bad situation for me. He seems to think I'm being an idiot for not taking a big cut in rent. The money I'll gain isn't worth the crap I'll deal with for 6 months.

    Go on craigslist and find a sub lessor. That way you can screen them. Otherwise, go talk to the apartment complex and see what you can do.

    There is no question that you cannot put yourself in the middle of that shit show. Death trap

    Gunga La Gunga

  • Of course she has a cat. Sorry you are allergic to them. You're missing out.

    AggieGrad98

  • Gunga La Gunga said...

    Go on craigslist and find a sub lessor. That way you can screen them. Otherwise, go talk to the apartment complex and see what you can do.

    There is no question that you cannot put yourself in the middle of that shit show. Death trap

    Ah. Here is where the plot thickens. It's a house and our landlord is his friend who moved out in January.
    He's going to see said friend / landlord this weekend in Seattle.
    I talked to the landlord and he said it's between me and the roommate to work it out. He doesn't want to get in the middle of it.
    But he is of the opinion that it won't be that big of a deal for 6 months. I beg to differ.

    You are either going to be a leader or not. to be a leader, you throw your shoulders back, tits to the sky, head up, cock out. - Daddy98

    aggiematt235

  • I have a solution, but I'm gonna have to PM it to you. It includes a car battery, ipecac, ~50 coat hangers, two chickens (preferably alive), and a lot of Powerade- you're gonna be thirsty

    TAMUwake

  • What kind of college guy actually wants to live with his girlfriend? That's straight up pathetic. Find some new friends.

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    Status

  • If you don't move on with this now you will after her arrival when the shit builds...gar-ran-tee

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    BuddyB73

  • Status said...

    What kind of college guy actually wants to live with his girlfriend? That's straight up pathetic. Find some new friends.

    Lol, well, we're out of college, but not by much.
    I agree though. Looks like I might be in need of new friends.

    You are either going to be a leader or not. to be a leader, you throw your shoulders back, tits to the sky, head up, cock out. - Daddy98

    aggiematt235

  • Friend of mine had a roommate allow his Gf to move into a house he lived in (total of 3 guys plus this girl). He hated it. Couldn't stand the girl after 2 weeks and she always bitched at him for everything.

    Wigeon

  • That is absolutely a terrible idea. But if you lose, at least make sure she does all of the domestic household chores and cooks for you every now and then. I live with a girl now and wish I would have put that in the lease. As for the cat, it's pretty easy to make it where the cat "got out and ran away". You definitely don't want a cat in there messin with your allergies and meowing all over the place.

    Mwalk

  • If she moves in, you will either lose a friend or he will lose a girlfriend. Unless something crazy happens like everything works out fine.

    ChallengerAg

  • Maybe all of the drama might be a lil entertaining though like a reality tv show in your house. Maybe they break up after she moves in, maybe she cheats on him and expects you not to tell, maybe she even starts comin onto you. Then what do ya do? Could get really interesting but more than likely you will just be stuck in permanent boring third wheel everytime you go home.

    Mwalk

  • Mwalk said...

    Maybe all of the drama might be a lil entertaining though like a reality tv show in your house. Maybe they break up after she moves in, maybe she cheats on him and expects you not to tell, maybe she even starts comin onto you. Then what do ya do? Could get really interesting but more than likely you will just be stuck in permanent boring third wheel everytime you go home.

    Lol, I'm not a big fan of reality tv. I don't want to live with it. The drama would mostly come from her best friend. I nicknamed her "The Wildebeest". Not only if she terrible to look at, but she is also a fan of adultery. It's ok to see the train wreck from the distance. I don't want it in my living room.

    You are either going to be a leader or not. to be a leader, you throw your shoulders back, tits to the sky, head up, cock out. - Daddy98

    aggiematt235

  • Mwalk said...

    Maybe all of the drama might be a lil entertaining though like a reality tv show in your house. Maybe they break up after she moves in, maybe she cheats on him and expects you not to tell, maybe she even starts comin onto you. Then what do ya do? Could get really interesting but more than likely you will just be stuck in permanent boring third wheel everytime you go home.

    Gotta become Eskimo bros! There's bound to be some sexual tension!

    aggiepdt606

  • Had a friend in college move in with his girlfriend. They signed a year lease.

    They broke up 3 months in and he had to live with her for 9 months.

    AggieGrad98